A book by Ruth Bajimi

Dancing Into Marital Bliss

Build a strong foundation in the early years of your marriage.

Avoid common pitfalls that lead to dysfunctional homes, costly marriage therapy and bitter divorce. Start your journey with the right guidance today.

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Your Path to a Happier, Stronger Marriage

Are you newly married or in the first few years of marriage? You may be dealing with communication issues, feeling overwhelmed by the expectations of married life, or struggling to balance your relationship with work and family. You might fear repeating mistakes you’ve seen in other marriages or want to avoid the costly path of marriage therapy. If this sounds like you, know that these challenges are common, but they don’t have to lead to a struggle.

Ignoring these early issues can escalate into deeper conflicts, emotional scars, regret and disconnection, often requiring expensive therapy or resulting in separation. Without a solid foundation, the dream of a happy marriage can quickly become a daily challenge.

Dancing Into Marital Bliss is a comprehensive guide tailored for newlyweds and couples in their early years of marriage. It offers practical advice and actionable steps to help you build a strong and lasting relationship from the start.

• Expert guidance. Written by Ruth Bajimi, a seasoned wedding planner and relationship coach with a deep understanding of modern marriage challenges.
• Real-life stories. Includes relatable stories from real couples, as well as Ruth’s own experience of 20+ years of marital bliss, providing valuable lessons.
• Interactive exercises. Each chapter features practical tips, reflection questions and exercises to help you apply the concepts effectively.
• A prevention-focused approach. This book guides you in proactively laying a strong foundation to avoid common pitfalls and set your marriage up for long-term success.

Chapter Summary

1. Chapter 1

   The Foundation for Success

   A couple, torn between adventure and home life, discovers the secret to a lasting marriage. But as challenges arise, will their balance hold, or will everything fall apart?
2. Chapter 2

   Establishing Openness and Honesty

   Their different communication styles begin to strain their relationship as they struggle to bridge their cultural gaps. As they adjust, the pressure builds. Will their bond grow weaker or find new strength?
3. Chapter 3

   Exploring Trust Building Challenges

   Trust can be fragile, especially when life throws unexpected challenges like an encounter with your ex-lover. In a moment where old emotions resurface, how do you rebuild trust?
4. Chapter 4

   Navigating Differences, Finding Common Ground

   I often hear people say, “opposites attract,” but differences can easily cause tension, even over something as simple as music. But seriously, does one person always have to give in?
5. Chapter 5

   Creating a Solid Financial Plan Together

   One’s a spender, the other’s a saver. Their financial habits couldn’t be more different. But as they tackle money talk, something unexpected happens.
6. Chapter 6

   Balancing Independence and Togetherness

   They come from different worlds: one thrives in high-energy social events, the other craves quiet nights at home. Can they find the right balance between public and private life without losing themselves or each other?
7. Chapter 7

   Keeping the Spark Alive

   Busy schedules? No problem! Keep the spark alive with small, creative gestures. Try these tips and thank me later!
8. Chapter 8

   Creating a Vision for Your Future

   I thought I had it all, but the pursuit of the American Dream quickly became a nightmare, straining our relationship and showing me that even the best dreams can unravel without balance.
9. Chapter 9

   Nurturing Relationships with Friends and Family

   Don’t let the family you came from destroy the one you’re building. While family is important, setting boundaries is key. Choose friends who uplift your relationship, not complicate it.
10. Chapter 10

    Sharing Household Duties and Responsibilities

    Who should handle most household duties: one person, or split 50/50? Is it ever truly fair? Grab my book to hear my take on tackling this challenge with teamwork!

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About the Author

Ruth Bajimi, the author of “Dancing Into Marital Bliss”, is an entrepreneur and seasoned wedding planner known for her exquisite orchestrations of diverse love stories at SPC Wedding & Event Management. Yet she’s more than just a planner; she’s a trusted confidante, providing unwavering support to countless couples through the journey to the altar.

Recognizing the need for strong marital foundations, she founded The Marriage Institution, dedicated to nurturing healthy relationships via the TMI Couples Community on social media, books, webinars, training and personalized one-on-one coaching.

With over 20 years of marital bliss and still counting, Ruth adeptly juggles her roles as a wife, mother, mentor and entrepreneur. She also serves as the host of The Marriage Institution, a show that provides insights on love, relationships and marriage.